During my divorce 5 or so years ago I decided it was time to completely change myself for the better. From success ($) to health to state of mine, body and soul I've made a complete 180 here's what comes to mind in the changes I made: 1. Dump people who aren't high value / add value to your life. Just because they are life long friends or some extended family member doesn't mean its YOUR responsibility to be dragged down by them. It's not easy to do this early on but once you start it's easy. 2. Get involved in anyway form or fashion with people who are high value which can range from people who have the skills and knowledge on making more money to ones who are at complete peace with themselves to the ones who know more about health, working out, etc. 3. Do (fill in blank) add value to my life? Does it improve my life in any fashion? If yes learn from them. 4. You are the #1 most important person, you live by your rules and your rules only not someone else. 5. Get your health under control, your body is your temple you know what to do and work out. Eat high saturated fat more protein and very low carbs (green leafy veggies mainly) which are only eaten to load more saturated fat. Case in point: I was always feeling like crap every morning and felt like I was 40 years older and I wasn't even a lard ass (needed to drop some fat at the time but certainly didn't look fat) I thought I was "eating right". Got blood work done and I was out of the range on some the key stuff. I changed diet completely and six weeks later got blood tested again and my doctor was utterly shocked to see the quick turn-a-round and NOW wanted to know what I did. As soon as I got to the load up on saturated fat he said that' not good cut it way down. I said look at the numbers of my results where is there a concern. Again, listen to YOU and only YOU unless you are around high value people who can tell you without a shred of doubt what needs to be done or be done differently. 6. Get the book on here. The workout one is invaluable to me. I don't way to fucking waste my time doing the wrong workouts only to find out way down the line it was a waste. 7. Maximize your time. Life is too short not too. 8. Love life. If you complain be a man change it or better yet go do what I did and live/work/visit some other countries and see what being poor is really like. There's no real poor people in the USA. 9. Admire your grandfather's generation where men were men. No wavering this is how it's done and how to do it generation. 10. So many males are either guys or boys who look like men. Be a man. Know what you like and don't like and don't put up crap for a moment. I have no problem picking up hot women and while I'm not ugly I don't look like George Clooney either. Friends are always shocked, how'd you pick up that? It's easy. The hotter the chick the more insecure they are and NEVER put them on a higher level than you. They have looks only to offer and it's a quick diminishing return while a REAL MAN's value only increases with age. No limits on a man while tons of limits on a great looking girl. NEVER compliment a hot chick on her looks. ONLY after you've banged them, period. Why? Because 10,000 men before you have and you don't instantly they are thinking this guy doesn't look like a model so why is he not fawning all over me he must possess something. Thank VP excellent site I'm definitely going to use your guide on how to make a 100 bucks a day and start a blog. Keep it up RP