Winner Wolf is the embodiment of masculine style. Picture by Peter Stultz.
When you dress like a winner it's impossible not to get ahead. When you dress like a winner people will always notice you and they will always hold you in high regard which, if you dress like a winner daily, is where you deserve to be held.
Whether you are trying to get a job, trying to get clients, trying to get a date, getting lunch, or going about your daily errands it is always best to dress for success.
If the lazy, dirty occupy Wall Street hipsters would get a shave, get a haircut, put on a fresh, clean, modern, and fitting suit their opportunities would sky rocket. Everyone wants to do business with a winner.
No one wants to business with a dirty bum. Those in positions of power and authority take note of these things. They correctly observe that laziness in dress is a direct embodiment of laziness and apathy in life.
The other day I was in a local coffee shop doing some light reading and computer work. A very lazy and disgusting looking young woman entered the establishment. She had a fat caboose, she had dirty, ill-fitting clothing, old and decrepit shoes, dirty hair, she clearly did not wash her face.
Worst of all she was wearing a wool ski-cap on a day that was blazing hot. She sat down right next to me and I could no longer concentrate on my work and I had to leave. With only a little effort and change of attitude that beast could have turned into a pleasant young lady.
Later in the day I went to a local sporting goods shop to purchase some supplies. The young lady who worked there was a beautiful blonde who took great care of her skin, her hair and her nails, she watched her weight and figure, she was wearing appropriate form-fitting clothing, and she advertised her feminine confidence and charms with a big, bright shining smile.
She was a clean angel compared to the dirty devil I saw in the coffee shop. Since that day I have been thinking about both young women each day, for obviously different reasons, and I hold the beautiful blonde in high regard and I have no regard for the disgusting beast with the ski cap.
I see legions of men daily who wear ill-fitting garments and take no regard for style and showmanship. Rather than take much note of these men they are invisible to me, and surely to all other men who hold a high regard for appearance.
I will take no note of these men, other than a cursory glance, for they are screaming to the world that they are worth nothing. On the other hand I will always take notice in admiration of a man with kempt hair, upright posture and wearing handsome attire.
For all good positions in life you must be a salesman. You must advertise yourself. Whether you know it or not you are already advertising yourself. If you are dressed like a sloth you are advertising yourself as a sloth. It hardly matters what your abilities truly are, if you are dressed the part you are automatically assumed to be the part.
When you see a man in a fireman's outfit you correctly assume that man to be a fireman. When you see a man in a tailored suit, cleanliness of face, hair and hands you correctly assume that man to be of some importance. When you see a man wearing an oversized, baggy t-shirt, baggy jeans, sandals, sporadic facial hair and a baseball cap you correctly assume that man to be no one of consequence.
It is one thing to go on vacation and wear shorts and a tank top. It's one thing to make a run to the market or to the post office in lazy clothes. It is another thing altogether to go each and every day wearing garbage in place of fitting and proper clothing.
Good friends, take some pride in your appearance. Leave that “It's what's on the inside that counts” business to the dirty and unemployable.
Your outward appearance is a complete and total manifestation of your inward mindset, attitude and pride.
If you wish to be perceived as a man of value, start advertising yourself as a man of value.
What do you think about law school? I recently got accepted to a third-tier school with about $75k in scholarships. Problem is, I’ll still have to borrow about $50k for living expenses, etc. over the course of three years. Should I just get a job instead? I have a BA in History, so there aren’t a lot of career opportunities waiting for me…
What do you call 200 lawyers at the bottom of the ocean?
A good start.
“…waiting for me…”
Nothing will ever wait for you. It’s up to you to make it happen. If that means selling your soul to become a lawyer so be it. Ask yourself if you want to be a lawyer for the next 40 years. If the answer is yes then you can give up more of your youth and go into debt (more debt?) to do so.
If the answer is no, find out what you will say yes to.
Up to you, friend. Good luck.
I’m planning on seriously upgrading my wardrobe after I drop down to my final weight. What if your Clothing is baggy due to rapid weight loss?
“What if your Clothing is baggy due to rapid weight loss?”
Perfect.
I wear a suit & tie. EVERY working day. I am a CEO. I own two companies. I where top of the line designer ties. I have slept with two actresses, a girl that was on the cover of Vouge and many models (unfortunately some Yagger girls, that’s like bottom of the barrel). I even made out with the girl from “Shes my cherry pie video” in 97″. The women always commented on my style and how well I dress.
Losers where Khakis. Losers do not polish their shoes. Losers have long fingernails. Losers have teeth that are not white (by the way pop an Altoid once in a while) . Nothing was handed to me. I am an HONEST savage salesman. I am disciplined, therefore I look good. Ya ya, I bet you think you have more game than me. They all want to say that. You don’t stand a chance punk because your a sloppy, fat week, beta male.
Also, clean your fucking car out. Try to not leave your Wendy’s wrappers on the floor of your Honda or whatever piece of shit you own. Your outer appearance is a direct reflection of your self-respect. Not only your person, but the outer environment you are responsible for.
Yes I’m joking around a bit… BUT, I am kind of serious here as well. Yes what’s on the inside matters. That has nothing to do with how the rest of the world, will form their perception of you, within the first 8 seconds of meeting you. It can take years sometime,s to do undo, a bad first impression. Ya, your MMA t shirts or Hipster gear says to the rest of us, “Yes I am A Faggot & Yes ladies I am broke”!
Pride… I love your shit man. If you lived in my town we would be doing it up. Your on point brother.
There are plenty of CEO’s have wild hair or don’t dress in fashionable clothing, but often opt for jeans with holes and tee-shirts. Michael O’Leary and Richard Branson are two such examples.
Remember, a lot of con-artists deceive people with fancy clothes, even though they have little bank. Ever see “the other man” with Liam Neeson?
That said, i agree with dressing for the occasion. For instance, will I wear shorts, sandles, and a tee-shirt during the summer? For shit sure! Because it is fucking hot. Many business men don’t though, because they’re too chubby to wear such revealing clothes. Instead, they wear suits to hide what’s underneath. You can dress casually if the situation demands it, but you can dress casually with style. Many celebrities are masters doing this, as well as dressing for other occasions.
@princeps:
If it is a 3rd tier law school, then odds are you won’t be able to get a job as an attorney after you graduate. Also, there are now more people in law school than their are lawyers who are currently practicing. If you are going to law school, don’t count on making a ton of money once you do graduate (when supply of labor > demand for that labor, wages fall)…
I’m starting with some good shoes for my wardrobe upgrade, Any advice on where to buy?
I go where the deals are, wherever that happens to be.
Gentlemen,
Take note. I will not tolerate personal attacks against other commenters. Comments here on BOLD & DETERMINED will remain civilized or they will go into the trash.
ops sorry. I thought we could trash talk. :) Its all in fun. Moving forward I will be cognizant of that.
The point of my previous post was this: tailoring style to the particular setting an hand is what i regard as important. If I attend the gym, I don’t wear a suit, obviously. I wear gym clothing, albeit gym clothing that emphasizes my physicality. If i attend a sporting event, I might wear a jersey, not a suit. If i attend a meeting, then i wear dress clothes. The key to dressing sharply is not as simple as wearing a suit. The key is being able to choose an outfit in sync with a particular setting. If you are a teacher, wearing a suit with a waste coat would be deemed by most to be over-the-top and not fitting with the occasion. However, the same outfit would work for a wedding.
I drive an automotive service vehicle (fancy name for a tow truck) and part of the required uniform is a bright yellow, high visibility shirt that looks bad on everybody. The only thing I can do is try and keep myself clean. I work with a few unfortunates who seem to think that working with dirty cars is an excuse not to shower or change clothes for a week. I’ve thought of wearing a suit just as a joke, to see peeople’s reaction when I roll up to them on the side of the highway and get out looking like I’m going to a wedding.
Now, when you mention “sporadc facial hair” are you talking about anything but a mustache or beard, or that fuzz that some guys try to pass off as a goatee or fu manchu?
D.,
I’m talking about that peach fuzz.
I dont know Vic, I definitely see your point but I think people are starting to see through alot of bullshit now. I know I do anyways. Here is what 90% of people define as “making it” #1- wear nice clothes #2- drive a luxury car, even if its old as fuck as long as its a BMW, Mercedes, Lexus, etc you are in the cool club, even if you still owe 50k on it. #3- Drink starbucks coffee, and bring your laptop computer so you look important to people, even though your just fucking around on it and make shit wage making sandwiches at a local deli. #4- talk about sports like you know more than everyone, even though all you know is the same shit as every other dushe bag who read the sports page that morning knows. #5- be a part of the same trendy bullshit everyone else is a part of, like 5 finger shoes, smart phones, and whatever bullshit defines you as cool.
I have desensitized myself from all the bullshit. I could care less what anyone thinks anymore. I wear tanktops and gym shorts everywhere I go because where I live is extremely hot, but I am of very good size at a relatively low bodyfat and get alot of recognition for it. Basically its the one thing that sets me apart from 99% of people anywhere I go. Oh, so your in a suit and tie and make money? So what, check this out, and you cannot buy it. Most people with alot of money I cant fucking stand anyways. I stood out in the street all day collecting money for muscular dystrophy today(I work as a firefighter) and all of those yuppie retards in the expensive cars didnt give me a fucking dime!! Meanwhile, all those bummy looking people you speak of, they dumped $5’s and $10’s in my boot all day long. Or the contractors in the big trucks, or the scummy looking bikers, or the Mexicans. So yea, lots of fake ass people in suits now, shit dont fool me
Agreed, Robert. And, exactly the point i made in my previous comments to this post.
There is a lot said for “doing what you want”. A man doesn’t follow “suit”, pardon the pun. Marlboro Man certainly didn’t (smile).
It’s different for blue collar guys, they have no need to wear a suit. But there’s a big difference between being clean and sharp everyday and dressing like a bum. If you’re in shape then a tank and shorts can look very clean and sharp, much better than would look on a fatso.
By the way, I dressed as a fireman one year for halloween (real outfit, borrowed from a firefighter buddy), the ladies went absolutely nuts for it. It was a real panty wetter. I dressed as a mormon the next year (bike helmet, glasses, white short-sleeve button up shirt, black tie, black slacks, black shoes, a black backpack, and carrying a bible) and I was completely and utterly invisible to the ladies. It was like bug repellent for broads. The clothes you choose matter, even if it’s tank and shorts.
“Most people with alot of money I cant fucking stand anyways. I stood out in the street all day collecting money for muscular dystrophy today(I work as a firefighter) and all of those yuppie retards in the expensive cars didnt give me a fucking dime!! Meanwhile, all those bummy looking people you speak of, they dumped $5′s and $10′s in my boot all day long.”
I never said those bums weren’t empathetic.
Fellas -
Isn’t this really about the pussy? I would dress in an Italian track suit 24/7 & drown myself in Pasta and Pizza if there were no broads around. Yes I’m half Dago but not a goomba, lol. I don’t need books like “The Game” to get A woman. Its a natural skill. I have very strong social skills.
Now, the comments I’m hearing suggest two things. Either your married & don’t have top shelf or your a single guy not getting 9″s or 10’s. That’s cool, not every guy has a high libido, is good looking enough, or just has week game. They will come up with justifications that, “life’s not about pussy” or, “I’m more more mature than that” (code for you have no game).
I have slept with some very incredible women. Yes, I have slept with two actresses. One was just in a recent comedy actually. The other is not so well known. My point is, the way I dressed caught their eye. In fact, one I banged called me to get some advice on what clothing to buy her current boyfriend (bitch).
Now, I’m really not trying to come off as a bragger. No matter what, if you sleep with hot chicks, guys will always try to hate on you instead of congratulating you. Believe me I know. I’m certainly not as good looking as I used to be, but I always dress the best I can. The point is, their are rules to sticking your junk in hot skanks. Follow them and have victory. Don’t follow them and take a fatty home in your Toyota Trecel. That choice is yours. However, for us at the top of the food chain, we figured out a long time ago, that people will treat you a certain way if you dress good and look good. You can get angry at that. You can where shorts & tank tops every where you go, however at the end of the day, what’s in your bed when you wake up in the morning? EXACTLY…
Whoa… Hey Pride I just noticed you said your a firefighter. Are you not worried the (PC Patrol) will see your blog? Although 99% of your statements are true, they are not politically correct (thank god). If someone got a hold of your blog, would you not go up in front of a review board? I think you said on your blog you live in Texas. Texas is definitely more manly, but you must work with minorities. Just saying man… BE CAREFUL! When a Caucasian man speaks the truth he is bound to make some enemies.
Re-read his post. He said he dressed as a firefighter, not that he is a firefighter.
Italian G,
With all due respect. Your comment is a sweeping generalization. It assumes that only well-dressed men attract beautiful women. That is utter nonsense. I can name several well-known people and sub-cultures who do not generally dress well, except for certain occasions, but it is not worth my time typing.
I do very well for myself with women. Am i naturally handsome? Yes. Good genes, not jeans. That said, I also work with my genetics. I eat right. I train hard. And, many would say I have a good personality - funny, charming, and kind. Yet, brash and bold when called upon. Still, I never wear suits. Do I dress well? Yes, when the occasion deems grooming, such as my job and other events. Do I wear casual clothing regularly? You bet.
Long story short - there is more to attracting women that clothes. It may simply be a case of you attracting women that are attracted to well-dressed men. Many women see well-dressed men as too vain, among other things, for their liking, even though they may admire their dress sense.
Pete Smith -
Pride quote : “Most people with alot of money I cant fucking stand anyways. I stood out in the street all day collecting money for muscular dystrophy today(I work as a firefighter)
You state only well-dressed men attract beautiful women. I did not say that. I said it was part of it. Have you been with the best of the best? Have you been with a large quantity of 9″s and 10″s? I have never been with a woman that was less than an 8. I have never drank to much and took a “fatty” home.
Sure plain guys get plain girls. It happens all the time. You can do you’re thing. I will keep doing mine. None of this is a personal attack. You don’t need to quote to me, that there is more to attracting women than cloths. I’m very aware of this.
If you read my post(s) I said I’m very socially strong & I’m not as good looking as I used to be. I still get women that are 10, 15 years younger than me. It just depends on the quality of women that you desire. Myself, personally I have dated a girl that was on the cover of Vogue. I just prefer I higher grade of woman than most.
I’m sure what your doing works great for you and keep it up. Those types of woman suite your socioeconomic status and are generally match compatible. I’m just accustomed to knowing the rules, of attracting, what our American & European cultures find attractive.
You stated, “I can name several well-known people and sub-cultures who do not generally dress well, except for certain occasions, but it is not worth my time typing”. That’s fine. If women from third world nations and various tribes are what your into, who am I to judge? We all have our likes and dislikes.
Italian G,
For the second time, it was not Victor Pride that stated he was a firefighter. It was Robert H. English might not be your first language so it is understandable if you struggle with reading.
I respect the success you are having with women and wish you continued success.
I mentioned that I do well with women. And, yes, i have been with females i consider to be 10s. I have also been with physically lesser attractive women and very much enjoyed the experience and company. However, you seem to assume that i have only been with dogs, lack the skills of the game, and that i have little finances. This is evidenced with your statement, “I’m sure what your doing works great for you and keep it up. Those types of woman suite your socioeconomic status and are generally match compatible. I’m just accustomed to knowing the rules, of attracting, what our American & European cultures find attractive”. Over the years, I have come to learn not to make assumptions as well as broad generalizations.
“If women from third world nations and various tribes are what your into, who am I to judge? We all have our likes and dislikes”. Since when does sub-cultures imply third-world? It most surely does not. At any rate, many beautiful women live and have come from third world countries. Again, though, you assume beautiful girls cannot live in third world countries.
Again, I offer my praise to you. However, if anything comes of my replies, I hope you learn the importance of both humility and not making assumptions. These are things we learn. I wish i had learned them sooner than I did, but c’est la vie.
Well said ….
Pete -
Great stuff. I suppose we all have our different standards and life is about perception. It looks like you have found yours. In our society there is room to accommodate everyone. Let’s look at the Special Olympics athlete. They have a perception as well. The believe that what they are doing is important and that it matters. I fully support their accomplishments and struggle as I support yours.
Pete you state “And, yes, i have been with females i consider to be 10s”. That’s great bud! What your doing works for you. I noticed that you stated English is not my first language. It is. Pete you might want to note, I checked The Hackers Guide, you never want to start a sentence with “And”. Just saying.
I do have two degrees & three minors. I will admit it took me 5 years as I was to caught up with all the women and partying. I did notice when I was in college, how often the fellas spoke about the beauty of the Inuit Eskimo women, the hottie bush-women of Swahili, and the dames from Papua New Guinea. if women with poor dental hygiene and unshaven vaginas are a guys thing more power to them!
Pete I appreciate you misnomer that I make generalizations & lack humility. In life, I have learned to look at the body of someones work before making inaccurate statements. Comment dites-vous cela en Français? There are those that do & those who teach.
“Great stuff. I suppose we all have our different standards and life is about perception. It looks like you have found yours. In our society there is room to accommodate everyone. Let’s look at the Special Olympics athlete. They have a perception as well. The believe that what they are doing is important and that it matters. I fully support their accomplishments and struggle as I support yours.”
You seem to perceive yourself as being at the peak of the summit, and that there is simply room to accommodate others. This is obvious from the way you write. “Let’s look at the Special Olympics athlete. They have a perception as well. The believe that what they are doing is important and that it matters. I fully support their accomplishments and struggle as I support yours”. The fact that you said “they believe” implies that you don’t believe. Oh, and what “struggle” did I convey?
You position yourself as superior. You simply couldn’t acknowledge that you made a mistake believing that Victor was a firefighter, even though I made this point clear to you twice. You probably still don’t believe I was right. Accept your mistakes, learn from them, and move on. This is a sign of manliness.
I never said that English was not your first language. That is precisely the reason why i chose the words “English might not be…”. It is laughable, though, that English is your mother tongue and yet you still make these simple mistakes.
Since when can you not begin a sentence with And? Again, this shows your lack of knowledge on the topic, especially given that you consider The Hackers Guide to be the bible of English. Quick lesson: you most certainly can commence sentences with conjunctions. Doing so serves to emphasize the sentence. However, if done too much, it can give the impression of run-on-sentences.
Again, this is not a personal attack. We don’t know each other, except form the messages we write here. This will be my last correspondence with you,on this post or future posts by Vic. Live, learn, and grow.
Wow. I’m sorry buddy. It looks like I really got under your skin. My girlfriend feels the need to express herself in the same fashion. I need to step back sometimes and realize, there are some really sensitive guys out there. You can have the last word. I can see you really need to vent.
Hey Victor, i just wanted to say that your the fucking man. Coming across your blog was undoubtedly the best thing that’s happened to me. i just wanted to say thanks for being a fucking genius, and sharing this with the world, your a true inspiration.
I disagree with this statement…i want to wear what ever i want, when ever i want and how i want it…
Conor McGregor has the same mentality as you and dresses in custom made tight fitting suits. Definitely goes to show that your outside is a strong image of your insides.
I made the mistake of not betting on UFC 194 (he knocked out Jose Aldo in 13 seconds). Hopefully, I get to bet on MCG’s next big fight where the odds are a bit more profitable for me. I know where my money is going for sure.
That square cut black tank top picture, wasn’t that taken in Chiang Mai at kad suan kaew shopping mall in that dirty ass gym:)? I used to go there.
I know a very wealthy yogi in India. Wherever he goes he wears the best shit. Even if he knows that he’s going to get really dirty he will wear the best. I asked him WTF is that about. He told me it doesn’t matter what dirt he’s surrounded by. He never forgets who he is.
I adopted that mindset. I don’t dress for the occasion. I don’t dress up if the situation calls for it. I always wear the finest and dress my best because of me! I am the divine personified and I must behave accordingly!
Even in that book you quoted from in another article, the book of shakti it is mentioned.. Venturing out unornamented was to invite misfortune.