Obsession is the Only Thing That Counts

They’ll say things like:

Don’t spend too much time on that.

You need to take a break.

You’re working too hard.

Moderation is the key.

It’s like you’re obsessed.

You’d hear it if you cared. You’d hear it if your ears weren’t deaf to bullshit.

They’ll say things like:

I’ve never heard of anything like that.

That’s not how it’s done.

That’s not what people do.

I don’t think that will work.

I’m not sure you can pull it off.

Their words don’t matter. They may as well be speaking underwater.

You can ask the obsessed millionaire working on a task what time it is but his ears can’t hear you. He’s miles away standing right next to you. He’s got plans to put into action. He can’t be bothered with trivialties like hearing people.

People who cannot articulate how to be successful will sell you “do what you love“.

Well I love getting my dick sucked by beautiful blondes.

I love taking a shit and reading a book in the morning.

I love playing with my dogs.

Those are hobbies. When you’re obsessed your hobbies disappear. There’s just no time for them.

You do what you’re obsessed with so you can afford your hobbies.

Hobbies are what you have when you don’t have obsessions. Hobbies are what you try and accomplish. A hobby is manufactured just to have something to do.

A hobby is a time-killer in between obsessions.

Obsession is what you absolutely cannot stop doing until it’s finished.

When it’s finished then you can play the hobby game.

The starving Wolf is obsessed with eating. The Lamb has a hobby of surviving.

The guy holding the trophy didn’t get there because he loves his sport - he got there because he’s consumed with obsession.

The amateurs love what they do and do it for fun. The pros are obsessed.

When you’re obsessed you drive home and walk in the door and think to yourself “how the f*ck did I just get home?”. The idea in your brain was too consuming to even notice driving.

When you’re obsessed you turn on some high adrenaline music. You play a whole album and before you even hear it the whole thing is over.

When you’re obsessed you start working on something at 6am and the next thing you know it’s 5pm - you haven’t eaten, you haven’t gone anywhere, you haven’t been to the gym, you haven’t showered, and you haven’t heard the phone ringing. And you keep doing it.

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Someone: You want to come to dinner tonight?

You: Nope, gotta work.

Someone: But it’s Friday night!

You: Uh-huh. Gotta go! Bye.

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You talk to me when I’m obsessed and baby we’re on a different planet. My ears are deaf to you.

Obsession is they key to turning nothing into something. If you can be obsessed with it for long enough you can turn it into money. Money buys you freedom. The freedom to obsess over anything you want.

The difference between guy who woke up 5 minutes before he has to leave for work and the guy who woke up at 5am because he couldn’t waste time in bed anymore is the difference between night and day. The 5am’er has seen the light of his personal heaven. The debt slave hauling off to his early afternoon HR meeting is stuck in the dark of his private hell.

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  1. Great post. The only time I get things done, and I mean truly get things done, is when I obsess over a given task. It feels awesome devoting yourself to only one thing and then kicking the shit out of it. Keep the awesome posts coming!

    Ryan

  2. pete smith says:

    beautiful!!!

  3. So true. Been working on remixes all day, got about 5 on the go right now, didn’t make myself any food til about 3pm. Working on my music. Right now it’s the last thing I think about before I got to sleep, and the first thing I think about when I wake up.

    • Victor Pride says:

      Good stuff. As a younger man I was highly obsessed with making music. I would be awake until 8am every morning, making music.

  4. Slowly but gradually I have started believing a lot that is in this post. All the best to me!

  5. Very powerful post! Victor, you made my day!!!

  6. Elliott Jones says:

    Damn near everyone of your posts makes me want to just yell at the top of my lungs (Out of pure excitement). Which I promptly do. Thank you Victor Pride. You have changed my life, and I am spreading the word to all who will listen!

  7. Vic,
    I have been pacing around for weeks wondering what the fuck do I do now! I have a pretty cool job and work my ass off and get paid pretty dam good when there is work. However, being a catastrophic claims insurance adjuster has one problem… No, bad weather no work! Since mother nature has been so nice I am running out of money wonder what the hell do I do now… I have been pounding my head on the desk for weeks! Tried a sales job. That sucked! I was killing myself competing with a 100 other douschbags for pennies on the dollar. “It’s dumb to compete in a saturated market” sound familiar?
    Anyway, I have good discipline, am 47 and have the body of a 25 year old stud! But I took a chance on your 30 Days of Discipline, what the hell it was $10 bucks. Ya, not much new in it but I have picked up some bad habits and been slacking so it was $10 well spent.
    I just found your website today and am jumping in full tilt… Some good ideas here and I think this is the kick in the ass I really need…
    Today is over but 5AM I start working like I have 30 days to make some money or I’m dead!
    Peace,
    ~T

  8. Fucking great post to get me fired up my man.

    Had to read this; I love your old shit.

    Mr. Veins

  9. Obsession is the key - great article!

    Have seen this time and again with the kids I coach tennis. It’s not necessarily the talented ones who succeed in the long term, it’s the ones who want to spend every waking hour playing.

  10. I’m glad I came across this post. Getting fired up.

  11. This is one of the greatest posts I’ve ever read. Truly inspiring.

  12. Trinity: No-one’s ever done anything like this.

    Neo: That’s why it’s going to work.

  13. Wow amazing post man. I had been feeling lost about life for a while now but your blog is really giving me a drive to step things up. I obsess over art and design and I feel that that is my calling to get up and do it. Awesome post

  14. faisal khan says:

    I just love reading this post over and over and over . . .obsessed with this one . . .great work victor . . .keep writing . . .

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