The Importance of Having a Big Ego
All champions have big ego’s. Without a big ego they would have never become a champion. They would have been just like Joe Average crying about the ego of Chuck Champion.
Ego isn’t a bad thing. Ego is a must. A big ego is just high self-esteem. All champions have egos. It’s the ankle-biters at the bottom who cry about “humility being a virtue”.
You cannot be a competitor, and a winner, without ego. The desire to be a winner at all costs is what drives champions. To a champion, losing is worse than anything else. Losing is too damaging to the ego.
When champions lose their ego and become humble is when they start their decline. You know what’s humbling? Losing. Losing is humiliating. Winners don’t lose. Only losers lose.
Here is the real deal about humility: You show it to your superiors. You do not show it to your inferiors. Champions have no superiors.
Humility is for the humble. They can have it.
Show me a guy who has no ego and I’ll show you a guy who’s comfortable taking 7th place out of 7 contestants. I’ll show you a guy who’s comfortable with the taste of shit in his mouth. You cannot be competitive and not have any ego. You can be non-competitive and have no ego, but so what. That means you are a spectator. That means you’re a critic.
When you want to learn something that’s when you can be humble. When you’re already King Shit you can act like it.
If humility were truly a virtue we would turn on our TV’s and worship humble and dirty street beggars, on their knees begging and crying for pennies, instead of worshiping big ego sports stars, actors and TV personalities.
Don’t confuse braggadocio with ego. Ego is the all-consuming desire to win, to not lose, and pushing yourself past the limit to do it. Bragging is arrogance and empty boasting. Ego is pride.
You’ve got to have ultra-confidence in yourself in your specific field. You can be humble all day about the shit you don’t know anything about, but when it comes to your area of expertise you should be Top Dog, King Shit, Cock of the Walk, A-#1, Big Man on Campus. You can feed the ankle-biters some scraps every now and again, after you’ve eaten your fill.
Be proud of you accomplishments. Whatever they may be.
Someone complains about your ego just ignore them. Don’t let them drag you on down to loser-town.
They say: You’re so full of yourself!
You say: Thank you for the compliment.
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2 / 12 / 12
Nick
So I went out with some buddies last night, and I was a complete asshole and got more chicks talking to me and giving me their numbers than ever. It got so ridiculous it became a frikken game to me, my buddy would just point out some chick and I was on it like a lion on a gazelle. I even said this to one chick…”Why dont we just cut through this getting to know you bullshit and let me get your number, because I’m going to get it anyways but let me get it now before I’m actually drunk” like taking candy from a baby. I had one girl look over at me and actually say “guy, that’s too much muscle…” I said oh you like the skinny boys huh? “No, but your just too much, its a little extreme (as she is looking me up and down) then she says “but if I ever need help moving furniture I’d call you” I immediately respond back “First off, thanks so much for the compliment because thats the best compliment I could ever hear from a girl (as some guy overhears it and shouts out “I WISH some chick would tell me I’m too big, nice!!”) and second off, IF YOU WERE EVER LUCKY ENOUGH to have me come over to your house, I’d show you a magic trick and move your fucking couch across your living room with both of us on it. Then I start talking to her friend and completely ignore her, sweet talking her friend “oh yea, we should go out sometime, do you like to eat at such and such” girl is really into me and practically about to orgasm in her pants, friend is now super pissed off and jealous and just looks miserable. I go to leave and tell the bitch “So very nice to meet you, thanx so much for your compliment and we’ll see you later Sally. (didnt know her name so I made one up to add insult to injury) but got friend #2 number. I walked in that place like I was king kong, guys were moving out of the way left and right apologizing to me over nothing ,and girls were drawn to me like flies on shit! I didn’t even buy my damn drinks, all the guys who thought I was such a bad motherfucker bought me drinks all night. So let me break it down for you, #1 -I’m one of the nicest dressed guys in there with clothes on I got from Goodwill #2- I’m the biggest alpha male prick in the bars and get praised for it by other men, and intriguing to hot girls, #3- I had a bitch who was so impacted just by my presence she tells me my physique is too extreme (and I was wearing a long sleeve dress shirt too!!) and eye fucks me up and down, then gets torn apart and her own friend gives out her # to me in front of her #4- I get more numbers than I know what to do with……all because my ego is too big and I’m an asshole!!!
Take note gentlemen. What I say sounds harsh sometimes but it’s the real deal.
another good tip for you guys, let the chick talk about herself for a little bit, and right when she is in the middle of it just walk away to go use the bathroom and then stop and talk to a different girl on your way back or your buddies. It’s a total mindfuck to them, and makes you even more desirable